didntfitthenarrative:

hobbitkaiju:

paskakissa:

biggest hetero lie i’ve been told: fighting is a part of a healthy romantic relationship

Disagreements are a part of every healthy relationship. Having bad days when you’re not your best self is a part of every healthy relationship. Fighting, disrespect, and insults? Those are not healthy at all. 

Fucking. Yes.

And its such a widespread and toxic lie; one of the most mind-rocking moments I had in my last long-term healthy relationship was when she confided in me that she wondered if our relationship wasn’t working out right because we never had fights. Cause its what she was used and what she had been told was healthy.