do you have advice on having sex when youre super insecure? im so uncomfortable with my body and the idea of someone seeing me makes me cringe. id be so embarrassed.

greglestrade:

I felt exactly the same as you. Honestly for the longest time the idea of anyone seeing me naked made me wanna die, and I thought it’d never happen. But sort of in the moment… it does? Honestly this guy I’m seeing is super duper buff and goes to the gym constantly but he has stretch marks and It made me realise that what we consider bad and what someone will hate is … normal, y’know. And I didn’t look at them and think ‘ew omg’ And I think it’s hard to accept when you’ve hated yourself for so long but you just gotta think …. the person you’re with (unless they’re a literal shitbag baby) isn’t going to think ‘ew, Omg’ either. They’re going to think they’re lucky you’re letting them sleep with u!!!!!