didntfitthenarrative:

hobbitkaiju:

paskakissa:

biggest hetero lie i’ve been told: fighting is a part of a healthy romantic relationship

Disagreements are a part of every healthy relationship. Having bad days when you’re not your best self is a part of every healthy relationship. Fighting, disrespect, and insults? Those are not healthy at all. 

Fucking. Yes.

And its such a widespread and toxic lie; one of the most mind-rocking moments I had in my last long-term healthy relationship was when she confided in me that she wondered if our relationship wasn’t working out right because we never had fights. Cause its what she was used and what she had been told was healthy.

agirlnamedally:

If you have something due soon, an assignment you’re supposed to be working on, a test you should be studying for or a deadline at work – this is your sign to go and do it. Get off tumblr and dedicate some time to whatever your task is. Do yourself a favour and prevent future-you from feeling anxious and overwhelmed because you aren’t prepared. Don’t leave it until the last minute and cause yourself unnecessary stress. Stop procrastinating. I believe in you. You can do this.